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The art of embracing change for personal evolution š
How the biggest changes in life can make you the best version of yourself
Hello friends,
This new year has already brought in so many changes to my lifeāfrom changing the name of my YouTube channel to leaving full-time RV life and moving into a home (spoiler alertāyouāll hear more about this next week!)
Itās almost ironic how so much change is hitting now, at a time when many of us are thinking about resolutions and up-leveling our lives.
And it really got me thinking that big changes in life can feel so overwhelming. As humans, I think we inherently donāt like changeāat least most of us donāt.
Itās the fear of the unknown. Itās so damn uncomfortable that we are more likely to stay in a bad situation in life than pursue a better option.
The fear of the unknown > The belief in a better future
Iād been feeling for a while that my old YouTube channel name no longer captured where I was headed, both creatively and personally.
Maybe youāve had that same gut feelingālike youāve outgrown something but arenāt quite sure how to move forward.
For me, the biggest hurdle was overcoming the worry that I was making a huge mistake Iād later regret, or that all of our subscribers would say sayonara!
I also stressed over the decision to remove my husband Wil from the name, since it had always been our channel from the beginning.
I didnāt want him to be hurt and I didnāt want people to think I was leaving himācause you know, itās the internet and people are going to think the worst possible thing.
But hereās the thing about trusting your gut: itās rarely wrong.
Deep down, I knew a rebrand would not only revitalize my channel but also re-energize me. I was at a place in life when I really needed something of my ownānot dependent on anyone else.
Iām thankful that Wil was so supportive of this decision. I know in some ways it still hurt a little bit, but he knew it was what I needed and never made me feel bad about it.
Growing up, I was very resistant to change. I donāt know if it was a mindset passed down from my parents or what.
But life changes always felt like hitting a brick wall.
I remember when I left home to go to collegeā¦I felt more sad than excited. When Wil and I first got married and moved in togetherā¦I felt overwhelmed.
Now hereās the thingāI never regret anything in life. This is just a mindset I live by. I think there is a butterfly effect to everything and even moments that seem like a mistake lead you down the path you were meant to be on.
Buuuut I do look back on the past to help guide my future.
And when I look back on these moments of change in my lifeāand I remember how negative they made me feelāI now try to embrace new life changes with positivity and gratitude.
Change is inevitable. Change is necessary. Change is life itself.
Nothing and no one is here forever. A great season in life will come, but then one day it will go. And thatās ok.
I absolutely loved the 2-3 years we spent living in an RV full-time. Living small and moving locations every couple of weeks was exactly what I needed in life then.
But now Iām embracing being back in a house! I love having more space to live in, having the foundation for a better routine, and being able to host guests in an actual guest room.
My sister-in-law Caiti is visiting right now and itās been so nice for her to have an actual room and not the RV trifold couch š
Iām also embracing the fact that I can still travel, but in a different way. Instead of taking long extended trips with days on the road, I can catch a last-minute flight to Canada and spend 3 days on Vancouver Island seeing as much as possible.
By the wayāI actually did this! So if you want to watch the newest video of my solo trip to Vancouver Island, Iāll link it below š
Iām also embracing the change to my YouTube channel. I canāt tell you how excited I am to be doing this full-time now and I have sooo many ideas for more ways I can connect with you guys.
So, do me a favorāvote below on what you want to see me do next! That way I can work on projects that youāre most interested in.
What would you be most excited to see me do next?Click the option you'd be MOST excited about |
If youāve made it to the end of this email, thank you ā¤ļø I hope youāre feeling open to all of the great changes coming into your life in 2025.
Please hit reply and let me know what your goals are for this year! I think saying your goals out loud helps bring them to fruition. But if you donāt want to tell anyone elseāyou can tell me and itāll be our secret š¤«
Until next Sunday,
Jen
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